Sunday, 25 May 2014

Manglik boy or girl, Good for marriage or not

The most frequently asked question an astrologer faces is about the compatibility of the horoscopes of  would be bride and bridegroom. The anxious parents as well as the bride and the bridegroom first of all want to get the “gunas “assessed.
But the most anxious are the parents who have Manglik child. Even the matrimonial websites have a special link for the manglik people. Why are people so afraid of the Manglik? Before I answer that question let me tell you what causes it. But rest assured that Manglik is nothing to be afraid of and there are many simple remedies available for a successful long married life.
Manglik or Mangal Dosha is the effect of the planet MARS. The planet Mars is a fiery planet and causes quarrels and fights. The unfavorable placement of mars in the birth chart is called Mangal Dosha.
The first house of the birth chart represents the self, second house represents the family, fourth for happiness and the seventh for the life  partner whether male or female, eighth stands for the death of the native and the twelfth house for bedroom, comfort and sensual pleasure. Now if Mars is placed in any of these houses it causes a malefic effect as Mars is a malefic planet. Such a placement of Mars  is known as Mangal Dosha. As Mars is fiery in nature and it is placed in the first house, the native will be very quarrelsome, if it is in the second house that would affect the family of the native, destroying domestic harmony in the family and so on with the other houses.
Most commonly the Manglik Dosha happens when Mars afflicts the seventh house. Reason is that Venus is the enemy of Mars. Seventh house lord is Venus. Thus if Mars afflicts it there is bound to be unpleasantness with the relationship of seventh house and that is marriage. In addition to the above  there are many other planetary positions which can result in Manglik Dosha.
And surprisingly 60-70% horoscopes have Manglik Dosha. But in many cases the Dosha does get cancelled when compared with the other horoscope for marriage. This is why people try to find a Manglik match for a Manglik person. This is because of the effect and placement of Mars in both the horoscopes; they neutralize the effects of Mars in each other’s chart.
People and Astrologers have made Manglik Dosha a dreadful Dosha. People get easily frightened if told of this Dosha in the birth Charts. But it is nothing to get so frightened because there are easy remedies for correction of this Dosha. Many people avoid marriage due to fear of this Dosha.
 Even if you are married and either of the partners has this Dosha remedies do work. And if your martial life is disturbed it may be due to Manglik Dosha.

If you wish to know whether you are manglik or not you can send in your name, place of birth, date of birth and time of birth. This is a free service for the benefit of the readers.

Monday, 12 May 2014

Being a mother

A very happy mother’s day. ..a day reminding and remembering mothers.

And oh all the mums are feeling so special and loved. WE are great creatures of God and are the best gift of God to our children. But stop let us see what is it that makes a mother such a crucial relation in the world.

We all know that a Mother is the most important person for a baby. While it is a fetus, it gets all the nourishment from the mother. It is well believed and scientifically proven that the fetus also picks up much emotional and physiological make up from the mothers behavior and her environment. Doctors suggest good music, good reading and happy surroundings for the mother so that she has a happy baby. The story of Mahabharata tells how Abhimanyu learnt about the Chakraviu. But do you have any idea of what a Mother means to a newborn?

She's the first person the baby's brand new eyes see as they look around their new world outside the womb. Her warm embrace is the first thing a baby feels as she wraps her arms around the new arrival. Her special fragrance is the first whiff of comfort the baby gets as it breathes. In short, she is the world to a new baby...
Of course we all know mother is very important person in our lives. But what does a mother feel as her child grows. For every success a mother will pat her child and attribute it to the child’s hard work and sincerity. Does she ever think of her own effort? No.

Bringing up children is the law of nature. All living being produce and rear their children, humans are no different. But there is a great difference in the attitude of the parents. Birds and animals push their children to independence but we humans fear to push our children. Perhaps it is the empty nest syndrome which frightens us.

Mother’s are greatly responsible for bringing up children. Of course these days’ fathers are also putting in their efforts right from changing diapers to feeding the child. But a mother’s role is greatly different and we all acknowledge her love & sacrifice. All mothers are loving, sacrificing, adoring and every mother is special just as every child is special. But what is so special and important about motherhood?

Motherhood is shaping a human being. It is forming the blue print of a future personality. No matter how much the father may be doing for the child but it is the mother who shapes the person that a child grows to be. It is the mother who encourages the child, soothes the frayed nerves and instills the confidence of growing up. It is a great responsibility that a mother shoulders. Indeed the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world.
                                                                                                                                   





Saturday, 10 May 2014

How to Get divine blessings through your mother?

A very happy mother’s day.
Almost all the media is full of these beautiful words. Everybody is suggesting some or the other gift for the MOTHER. Well, all mothers will feel very happy to receive a gift from her children but what gift would a mother need. Flowers, Cards, Cars, Clothes, Jewellery........what would be the best gift for the person who gave you your life? Perhaps a few moments of chit chat, or a big tight hug or just putting your head in her lap, to let her stroke your hair?
A mother is a very special person. Of course it is true that a mother is born when a child is born. But, before the birth, mother is the woman who carries us for nine months while bearing the pains, agony and of course the little ones kicks and pushes is the one  human being who is going to be there always, whether good times or bad times. Her love is the most self-less love. She is the one who makes your life after sacrificing hers. She is awake at nights for her child, whether he is studying or out partying with friends, she will only sleep when she is sure you are safe and secure in your bed. She will check on her child umpteen times to be sure of the child’s comfort.
She is there for us to hold and comfort when we are sick or hurt. She is the only person who will laugh with you and cry with you. She is the only person to whom your success is a matter of great pride.
Hold your hands together and look what you find in your hands, a part of your mother. She is there.
Mothers are the sweetest gift from God to us. There is no way we can ever really thank our mother for all that she does for us. This reminds me of a story I heard in my childhood. A very proud & a rich man one day declared that he did not owe anything to anyone. Suddenly a wise man told him that there was a woman whom he did owe. This was his mother. The rich man asked his mother what he owed her. She called him to his bed and asked him if he could sleep there. As soon as the man slept she poured a mug of water on the bed. The rich man got up screaming and abusing. His mother reminded him that that is what he did when he was a little baby, just like every baby he would wet the bed. The wise man then asked him how he would repay his mother for her sleepless nights. The rich man had no answer.
Of course there are no wet nights now, we have diapers for dry and happy nights, but the babies still cry at night and mothers do spend sleepless nights. The love is not in the sleepless night but in the act of a parent, specially the mother who cares for the baby. This care and love is never ending, for a mother a baby is a baby all his life.
And how do you think we can repay our mother. There is just no way
Children, mothers also grow with you. They understand your needs and they make adjustments to their lives so that they are there for you when you need someone. It is very true that mothers are the only person whom you will find besides yourselves even when your shadow has left you. She will always love you. There are no words which can do justice to the emotional string between a child and the mom.
But in very unfortunate cases this string breaks. It is the most unlucky thing to happen. Astrologically this will happen if the fourth house is badly placed or is badly affected. Fourth house is  the house of comfort within one’s own home, and governs the ownership of properties. It is also the house of schooling and primary education.. People without comfort in their own house are going to be unhappy. People without property, well again are not well placed in life. It would not be incorrect to say that just as the mother is the root base of our lives, so is the fourth house the root base of our lives and both need to be positive and strong for us to be happy.
People who love their mothers, respect their mothers are really lucky people as it is very sure that they have good stars in their most important house of the birth chart. Serving ones mother is divine service and perhaps it’s the mother’s blessings which bloom into happiness in our lives.



Friday, 2 May 2014

Mystery of the days in the week

Since the days of childhood we all have learnt the week days. Even though the week starts with Monday, the first working day of the week, we have been told that the first day is Sunday. This usually does not seem to make sense and most of us feel that the weekend includes Sunday. But No actual the week starts on Sunday Is there a special reason for this and what is the logic for naming the week days. Actually DAYS IN A WEEK TEACH US a lot.
FIRST COMES SUNDAY;
When our soul arrives on this planet, it is eternal, pure, light, and unconquerable (ALL THE QUALITIES OF SUN)
When a child is born and enters this world the soul of the child is effected by all the planet s and the elements.
The first element which we have to conquer is WATER .WE all need to get out of the water bags...Water is represented by the MOON
HENCE MONDAY.
Then comes TUESDAY (mangalwar) that is controlled by MARS, MEANS IN this step, we have to conquer over FIRE OR I CAN SAY OUR ANGER.
WE HAVE TO LEARN, HOW TO USE OUR ENERGY ON THE PATH OF ENLIGHTENMENT.
NEXT COMES Wednesday (BUDHWAR)
CONTROLLED BY MERCURY (that is element EARTH)
NOW WHEN WE HAVE conquered over our emotions and anger (energy)
We are ready to become a student or to gain knowledge, as only then our learning starts, only then our intelligence develop (all qualities of Mercury)
Moving ahead, When WE HAVE GAINED ALL KNOWLEDGE, BEING A STUDENT only then we can achieve the post of guru that is Jupiter.
HENCE comes (GURUWAR ) THURDAY. Here we have to conquer over (sky, aakash tatva) we have to develop all qualities of teacher (patience, perseverance, humbleness) but just being a guru ,will not give us enlightenment. WE HAVE TO CONQUER OVER ALL THE, WORLDLY PLEASURES (LUXURY, CARS, BANK BALANCE, SEX, BUNGLOW, STATUS, NAME, FAME) THAT is, true guru is one who is able conquer over all qualities of Venus.
HENCE (SHUKRAWAR)Friday so next step is control over worldly pleasure.
THEN COMES SHANIWAR (LORD BEING SATURN) SATURDAY (element air, Vayu tatva)
Saturn is TAP (penance), BAL (Strength), STRUGGLE, BEING HUMBLE WHILE having all the knowledge.
Saturn teaches us to be pure, IT TEACHES US, HOW TO LEAVE EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD AND WALK ON THE PATH OF ENLIGHTENMENT.
Coming back, 12TH HOUSE IS FOR LOSS, ENLIGHTENMENT AND THAT IS WHAT FINAL STEP (SATURN) TEACHES US THAT LEAVE EVERY THING. THERE IS NOTHING ON THIS planet which can match God; it gives us the foresight to distinguish between what is ours and what is not ours
Everything that our ancestors formulated has great significance .If we can reach the knowledge behind the simple facts we would be able to help ourselves a lot.